Seniors Embrace Aging in Place

The new catchphrase among homeowners is “aging in place.” Instead of selling their homes and moving into retirement villages or assisted-living quarters, a growing number of older Americans are modifying their homes to make them more user-friendly as they age.

“Aging in place is a near and dear subject,” said Karen Kassik, president of Home Accessibilities, a residential design firm that focuses on building barrier-free homes.

The inspiration for the firm was Kassik’s experience with her own mother, who moved into Kassik’s newly remodeled home in Casselberry, Fla., while recovering from foot surgery. Thinking the visit would last only a few months, Kassik installed her mother in the master suite while she moved into the tiny guest bedroom. But it soon became apparent her mother would not be able to live alone.
Kassik’s 1,300-square-foot house, with its narrow doorways and awkward steps, was unsuited to someone struggling to get around with a walker. Rather than remodel a second time, Kassik decided to build a larger, more-accessible home in the same neighborhood.

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How to Adapt to Aging and Elderly Parents

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As we grow older our parents tend to become challenging and sometimes interfering as we ourselves try to mold and create a life of our own. With age our parents lose their memories, become stubborn and question any suggestions made by their children or grandchildren.

They have a right to be "right", for they've been around much longer and their wisdom and experiences in life quite outshine yours. Life can become frustrating as conflicting ideals and values coming from parents upset and jumbles your own system of values. Patience runs out as we become irritable and annoyed which upsets the peace of mind as any issues concerning a parent is sensitive and private, not likely to be freely discussed with others

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8 Things Not to Say to Your Aging Parents

Unintended barbs cut to the quick and can’t be taken back. Here are some better options.

The repetitions, the forgetfulness, the incessant asking whether we’d like a sandwich: Eventually it just happens, and out of our well-meaning mouths tumble snarky comments and insults that we really don’t mean but they … just … slip … out.

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The Hardest Conversation To Have With Aging Parents

Most people seem to have the worst time talking to aging parents about finances and control over other life changing decisions. But a study done by Pfizer, in conjunction with Generations United, suggests that finances are not the hardest thing to discuss with aging parents.

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